Young Ghanaian counselor, Ms. Beauty Kusenu, has advised men to be vigilant about how they treat their spouse in their marital home.
A post sighted by InGhanaNews.com on Ms. Kusenu’s Facebook official page indicates that it’s a bad practice to marry a career woman and later convert her to a housewife.
Why must ‘men’ continue to put women down?
‘’ Regardless of where this stems from – insecurity, jealousy, competition, whatever other emotion you can use as an excuse…it’s very annoying and pathetic.’’—she added.
I’ve been told by several women, especially as I’ve gotten older, about all the things they think I should be doing or not doing, saying or not saying, and feeling or not feeling.
It’s very hurtful, continues to perpetuate stigmas and stereotypes, and needs to stop.
According to the young Ghanaian counselor, taking a different stance, she said, should in case you want a housewife go in for someone who was brought up to be just like that.
Below are some comments she based her comment from;
‘’Well, you know, they say a woman’s place is in the kitchen. Every man likes a woman who can cook.’’
‘’Your boyfriend helps you clean? You’re so lucky you don’t have to do it all yourself’’.
‘’Wow, you’re really strong. I don’t work out that much because I’ll get big, and my boyfriend likes being the strong one’’.
We should never be ashamed of making an effort to be healthy and strong.
She reiterated that career woman must be allowed to work tirelessly.